tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24309051690746177792024-03-21T05:30:14.713-07:00Black coffee and a CigaretteBlog of a 22 year old mom, housewife, and studentSolinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02218085141836297957noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430905169074617779.post-37600468995394884342009-11-02T13:00:00.000-08:002009-11-02T17:24:43.267-08:00message from a young mother<div align="center">YES! I am a young mother! NO! it wasn't by "accident"!<br />I am so sick of older women treating young mothers like they don't know what they are doing.<br />Just because YOU where to busy with yourself and your career doesn't mean everyone should wait until there done "enjoying there life" as some say.</div><div align="center">Well... I enjoy my life just fine! I love being a mother and I couldn't imagine anything more joy full then that?</div><div align="center">My little girl is perfectly healthy, she never even had diaper, rash ore <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">diarea</span> and sleeps true the night! I know I'm not a perfect mother and there will be many bumps in the road, but I'm doing just as good as any other mom, thank you very much!</div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:78%;">"older" moms, please don't feel attacked, I'm just talking to those who talk bad about young mothers.</span></div>Solinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02218085141836297957noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430905169074617779.post-31634085601752292772009-11-02T03:55:00.001-08:002009-11-02T15:37:52.833-08:00Love ore Money?<div align="center">Yesterday at work I met a nice men who told me he "liked" me very much.<br />And as hostess (I work at a hotel that has a restaurant) I was polite and we talked for a while.<br />He told me he was 31,rich and he was staying in the hotel for business.<br />We started a discussion about the possibility for him to be able to find a wife/girlfriend because he is traveling so much.<br />I assured him it was possible.<br />He said he was glad to hear that and told me he's future wife would lead a happy life.<br />She would be able to go with him if she would want to ore, stay him with his <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">creditcards</span>.<br />I laughed and said that it sounded very appealing.<br />I guess he took that as a hint and he gave me his business card. </div><div align="center"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399649675668161906" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxg5Gt9O85rdW5KYB4kCJAMlcsP49qaAo00NjMx_7f5iKlTQvPko-HCuvdNmZmAFL4qn2wIwRV6ybM4P9gsCk4dkZIPqb8JsnKTGzwJR1lMbUgg_7Cc3oCSlsl2e-Wmd4pqlEUoZZDpU60/s320/DSC02426.JPG" border="0" /><br />I threw it away but, I must say that I was doubting for just a couple of seconds.</div><div align="center">It's not that I'm taking him very seriously, especially after he said that he wouldn't normally do something like this but I seemed "special". (Anytime you hear a men say something like that the first time he meets you, you better stay away)</div><div align="center">But right now my boyfriend doesn't have a job and that's something I could live with.The fact that he is not actively looking for one is what is bothering me (and that's an understatement!)</div><div align="center">So when an other men comes along who <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">apparently</span> takes his work very seriously, it makes me wonder why I haven't been <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">pickyer</span> about <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">choosing</span> a partner.</div><div align="center">I use to think that money wasn't important, but <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">that's</span> something only people who have money would think. If you don't have any you'll learn how important it is.</div><div align="center"></div><div align="center">I guess I chose "love" but was that the right choice?<br /></div><div align="center"></div>Solinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02218085141836297957noreply@blogger.com1